Years ago I started separating people and placing them in the files they belong in. At the time I really didn’t know I was creating personal files, but now that I know I have decided to categorize them into 3 groups.
Active File: People I still chill with from time to time for whatever reason…..
Inactive Reserve File: People who have moved on with their lives (Married, Dating, or Just wanted more than I was willing to give)…. But I keep the window open for a easy return.
Deactivated: People I just don’t fu@k with anymore for whatever reason. …
So here is the problem at hand…. I have a issue with letting people go, I make excuse for myself by say “I’m this way because I don’t like burning bridges, because I never know when I going to have to cross that bridge again”, but I really think it because I’m arrogant and selfish. I used the word arrogant not because I’m conceited or vain, but because I’m extremely confident that I will get another chance. I use the would selfish because like all men we have learned this unwritten rule that states whatever woman deal with us; belongs to us and there’s no way she can be happy with anyone else….. Is this rule really true hell naw, but you can’t make me think any other way. This small problem is the reason why my INACTIVE RESERVE FILE is overflowing. I have never had a problem with my ACTIVE FILES or my DEACTIVATED FILES. Everyone in my INACTIVE RESERVE FILES brought something to the table, something that caught my attention which is why they were in my ACTIVE FILES at some point.
I think what I really need to do is re-evaluate the way my files are setup and build another file in that cabinet which reads PLATONIC FILES… Damn!! Never mind I’m still questioning can Men and Women truly be just friends…. (Which was a “Note” on my facebook page a while back)? TO BE CONTINUED……..
Everyone has some type of filing cabinet, but the issue is how accurate are the files inside. These are JUST MY THOUGHTS what do you think?
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